If you're one of them, don't be afraid because there are many men who also
experience this problem.
In fact, some people cannot have intercourse at all because, the man puts on
the condom, his erection disappears and its 'sex-over' for them.
This can be very frustrating because the need to wear a condom cannot be
overemphasized, unless one wants to be the next victim of Sexually
Transmitted Diseases (STDs) or deal with unwanted pregnancies.
For many people, this only happens with new partners.
So what actually causes it?
1. Wrong condom size – many people do not know it, but the wrong condom
size can kill off an erection. When you decide to wear a condom, you
must wear the right size, otherwise, there is no point. When the condom
becomes tight at the base of the penis, there is a chance that blood flow
will be cut off. When this happens, the erection is lost. SOLUTION :
Always make sure you wear the right condom. Too small will get you
tightened up and kill your erection and too large can fall off during sex.
2. Sexual anxiety – many of the cases of impotence after wearing a
condom is put on is basically caused by anxiety. When the man is
experiencing nervousness, pressure and fear because of the expectation,
physical and emotional, it can lead to the weakening of the erection.
SOLUTION: clear your head and think about enjoying the experience,
rather than performing to a certain standard.
3. Lack of proper stimulation – some men lose their erections because their
sexual preferences are not met by their partner. It is a fact that everyone
has unique sexual preferences and favourite foreplays. When these are
not gotten, things fall apart and the erection is lost. SOLUTION : The
partners must be willing to meet each other at the point of their sexual
needs. As a man, you must open up and say what exactly you need to
get a full erection. If you want oral, hand job, prostate stimulation of any
other fetish, say and get the weapon armed.
It is important to note that the best option for you is to see a doctor who can
give you expert advice.
